Do You Hear My Voice NOW?
Overview
Based on new medical discoveries about the brain we now know that the brain doesn't differentiate between physical trauma to the brain and mental.
Mental Abuse
If someone dies due any type of death ... they no longer have a voice. They no longer have the ability to ask questions ... to help prevent abuse to others. It seems that family members and those in the Christian community sweep the abuse under the rug and it will happen again.
The Very Hard Questions ...
"Do You Hear My Voice" interviewed family and friends of a young man who committed suicide.
Sadly ... people judge the hurts of others based on their own hearts. The following questions may be really hard questions to ask / answer ... but if they save one person's life ... OR ... help one other person gets help before it's too late, then this young man in the prime of his life, will have left a legacy of helping others.
Why So Much Fear?
People who are wrong ... really wrong ... seem to have the ability to hide behind ... religion, being a nice person, or many other things.
They don't want the hard questions asked as it reveals the truth and can expose them for who they really are.
Often depression and sexual disorders do come from sexual abuse. If this happens at a young age, it can be so traumatic that there is disassociation (will not remember) with what happens and it will be revealed in so many different ways.
"What if your father in law is warned of the danger, ignores it and then seems to set out to bring great harm to your two brothers, your sisters and parents?"
"What if your wife is unwilling to get help and says 'We've got this covered, we'll be fine" and rejects help?"
"What if after you die your wife then acts like a martyr and seeks to blame everything on you, your siblings and parents?"
"What if your wife is not only lazy but also spends all the money you can bring in and her mom supports it and has and is an enabler?
What if you do all the work to rehab a home and your wife does nothing and after you die you give her far more money than she has ever had in her life and she and her family tell people lies about how destitute she is, when the truth is that she has never in her life had more money than what you left her?"
The Hard Questions ...
We hope that for those who are out there ... who share the same questions ... get help. If you get angry, upset about these questions being asked then it's probably a good idea for you to get help as well ... before you hurt someone else.
"What do you do when you don't want to share with others how your wife is saying and doing things which are destroying you at a soul level?"
Often the abuser, especially if it's the wife, will know how to lie and deceive everyone. Run, get help and be honest and if you need to leave her do so before it destroys you. The book "Walking on eggshells" is about Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and helps you to see where this type of person can drive you literally to suicide.
"What if no matter what you do, your wife is never happy, no matter what you do, it's not enough and her good Christian parents are in denial?"
"What if they are a part of the problem and make everything worse?"
"What if you talk with your father-in-law it's clear that he doesn't want to talk about it and/or help you?"
"What if your wife is so lazy that she won't keep a job, won't clean, won't fix any food and just watched TV all day and is always depressed due to her being lazy?"
"What if your wife is so mixed up that you wonder if she was sexually molested by a family member, a church leader or maybe even her own father?"
